FAQs
What is the dress code for each event?
Saturday evening: Totally casual, come as you are, whatever you want.
Sunday evening: Anything that makes you feel good! Black tie, sequined tie, no tie, dressed as a tie. Whatever turning a look means to you, we want to see it. That said, nothing is too splashy, so if you’re feeling bold go wild. We love a big swing fashion moment.
No, but seriously: is it black tie?
Not no, in that black tie won’t be out of place. But also no, do not feel obligated and there is no official dress code. We want you to feel comfortable so wear whatever makes you feel good. Truly.
What can I expect at each event?
Saturday evening: Just a low-key evening of schmoozing. There will be a cash bar (pro tip: they make great cocktails) and we’ll provide some snacks. Stop in if you’re around and depending on how the night goes maybe we’ll keep things going at another spot in Hell’s Kitchen afterwards.
Sunday evening: Grab a glass of bubbly as you arrive so you can help us kick things off with a quick toast. This isn’t a real ceremony or a traditional vow renewal, it’s just a chance for us to mark the occasion with all of you. After that, we party: the bars will be open, the dance floor will be hot, and there will be a variety of hor d'oeuvres to nibble throughout the night. We’ll have tables and seating on the main floor, and a quieter second floor lounge if you want to chat or need a break from dancing. Plus some fun extras throughout. The mission: have fun.
We’re still working on the logistics for Monday morning. When you RSVP, let us know if you’ll still be in town that morning or if you’re local and available to join (and if you’re not too sick of us by then.) We’ll update the Schedule page here and get in contact with you when we know more.
Are there accessibility considerations?
Unfortunately the space we’ve reserved for Saturday evening is only accessible by stairs. If this is preventing you from attending, please let us know and we’ll see what we can do.
The entrance to the venue for Sunday’s party is located on street level. It is two floors, but there’s a private elevator which will only be used by our event. We’ve designated the second floor lounge space as quieter than the main level, and there will be plenty of seating on both levels. If there are any other considerations that would make you most comfortable, please reach out and let us know.
Are children invited?
We tried but the venue won’t serve martinis in sippy cups. Seriously though, we love your kids but we’re asking that you don’t bring them on Sunday evening. We understand that might make things difficult for some people and we’re sorry if it means you can’t make it. But if you can, we’re looking forward to some of your undivided attention. And if they’re traveling with you that weekend, we’d love to find another time to give them a squeeze!
Will there be vegan/vegetarian/gluten-free food options?
Absolutely yes.
This all sounds rather similar to a wedding...
WELL IT’S NOT, JUDGY. But we’re borrowing some of the trappings because we never got the chance, because we’re adults who can do whatever we want, and because you already know we’re a little bit extra. So just get on board and enjoy the ride!