FAQs
What is the dress code for each event?
Saturday evening: Totally casual, come as you are, whatever you want.
Sunday evening: Anything that makes you feel good! Black tie, sequined tie, no tie, dressed as a tie. Whatever turning a look means to you, we want to see it. That said, nothing is too splashy, so if you’re feeling bold go wild. We love a big swing fashion moment.
No but seriously is it black tie?
Not no, in that black tie won’t be out of place. But also no, do not feel obligated. We want you to feel comfortable so wear whatever makes you feel good. Truly.
What can I expect at each event?
Saturday evening: Just a low-key evening of schmoozing. There will be a cash bar (pro tip: they make great cocktails) and we’ll provide some snacks. Stop in if you’re around and depending on how the night goes maybe we’ll keep things going at another spot in Hells Kitchen after.
Sunday evening: Grab a glass of bubbly as you arrive so you can help us kick things off with a quick toast. This isn’t a real ceremony or traditional vow renewal, it’s just a chance for us to mark the occasion with all of you. After that we party: the bars will be open, the dance floor will be hot, and there will be a variety of hor d'oeuvres. We’ll have tables and seating on the main floor, and a quieter second floor lounge if you want to chat or need a break from dancing, plus some fun extras throughout the venue. The mission: have fun.
Are there accessibility considerations?
Definitely. The entrance to the bar on Saturday evening is slightly elevated but there’s a ramp with handrails. There’s an accessible restroom on the main level, and larger gendered restrooms downstairs.
The entrance to the venue for Sunday’s party is located on street level. It is two floors, but there’s a private elevator which will only be used by our event. We’ve designated the second floor lounge space as quieter than the main level, and there will be plenty of seating on both levels. The restrooms will be non-gendered. If there are any other considerations that would make you most comfortable, please reach out and let us know.
Are children invited?
We tried but the venue won’t serve martinis in sippy cups. Seriously though, we love your kids but we’re asking that you don’t bring them on Sunday evening. We understand that might make things difficult for some people and we’re sorry if it means you can’t make it. But if you can, we’re looking forward to some of your undivided attention!
Will there be vegan/vegetarian/gluten-free food options?
Absolutely yes.
This all sounds rather similar to a wedding...
WELL IT’S NOT, JUDGY. But we’re borrowing some of the trappings because we never got the chance, because we’re adults who can do whatever we want, and because you already know we’re a little bit extra. So get on board and enjoy the ride!